Isaiah 43:18-19 Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert.
God is not surprised by the death of our loved ones, nor is he surprised by what we go through in our lives. Remember, He is omnipotent and He knows all things. He designed every living human being in His image. Even though we may not know his plans, or His thoughts, if He abides in us, and we in Him, then we should be in tune with what He is doing in our lives. If He is doing a new thing in You, accept His will and be obedient to His word.